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Even though many people still cling to "traditional values" and tend to stigmatize those who live their relationships according to their own ideas, social mores are nevertheless evolving towards a freer sexuality. Separated, widowed, or single seniors increasingly want to have new life experiences. Since there's no age at which one should "let oneself go," why not get intimate on the first date? Let's delve deeper into this topic. Sexuality Is Important -  Even In Later Years It's a misconception to believe that after the age of 50, desire an... more ...

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." said Oscar Wilde. While some individuals boast an oversized ego, others struggle immensely to accept themselves as they are. It's easier for them to love their children, their partners, their families, and their friends. These individuals tend to highlight their own flaws and imperfections rather than recognizing their own worth. Can one learn to love oneself? How can one succeed in self-acceptance? Must one love oneself to be loved in return? These are just a few questions we'll attempt to address in this new article.... more ...

Erotic texts have existed since ancient times. Whether they come from Ancient Greece, with early representatives like Alcman or Sappho, Ancient Rome with Catullus or Ovid, or from the East, featuring central works such as "One Thousand and One Nights" or the "Kamasutra"... However, this literary genre, aimed at arousing the reader's sexual desire by exploring the pleasures of love, has been experiencing growing success especially among women for the past decade. How can we explain this? Has the readership also evolved? What do these texts bring to us? Let's take a c... more ...

While most people cannot imagine life as a couple unless they live under the same roof others feel the need to withdraw into their "nest" and thus maintain a form of independence. Living Apart Together long considered unthinkable in our societies, has become a growing phenomenon.Recent studies indicate that individuals in living apart together (LAT) arrangements make up approximately 10% of the adult population in North America and Western Europe. Is there a "typical" profile of a person particularly inclined to this type of relationship? What advantages and disadvantages d... more ...

In the fascinating world of interpersonal relationships, the power of attraction plays a decisive role.Does the person who meets our expectations and desires truly exist? What guides us in choosing a partner? Why do we fall in love with a specific person? The subtle art of partner selection often encompasses conscious and unconscious aspects that influence our decisions. Let's take a closer look.  What are we naturally attracted to? Our emotions and subconscious mind play a crucial role, including experiences from childhood. Frequently, prescribed patterns and childhood expe... more ...

As we age, more and more of us find love after 50. But why does love feel different at this stage of life?Members of the older age group bring new perspectives and life experiences that impact every aspect of our lives, including the questions of love and relationships. They know exactly what they want, or don't want, in a new relationship.What characterizes our attitude towards love at this stage of life?  New Self-awareness and Self-confidence The years after 50 can bring new opportunities for self-awareness and self-confidence. Life experiences and self-awareness that com... more ...

Aha, choosing a partner... one of the most exciting and mysterious aspects of human life. We've all chosen a partner at some point or are currently seeking someone who aligns with our ideals and desires. But what guides us in mate selection? Why do we fall in love with a particular person?Partner selection often involves conscious and unconscious factors that influence whom we choose as our life companion.Psychological research reveals gender differences in mate selection criteria. For instance, men tend to prioritize external appearance, while women prefer a partner's caregiving abili... more ...

"We asked our relationship expert, psychotherapist Dr. Stefan Woinoff. The comprehensive interview in 5 parts.Here, we ask Dr. Woinoff new questions each week about topics related to dating, love, and relationships and share his answers and valuable tips for those seeking a new partner.  50plus-Club: Dr. Woinoff, why do many women over 50 find it hard to find a partner? Most women over 50 have a very clear idea of what they want in a partner, and their list of criteria can be quite extensive, which can sometimes impact their success rates. They are demanding when it comes t... more ...

Beyond a mutual inclination between two individuals who are not from the same family, friendship is a very strong feeling and, for most of us, as essential as love. "A true friend gives their heart unreservedly, without conditions, and solely because they love. They possess the sincerity, delicacy, and fidelity of the sentiment," wrote Jean-Jacques Rousseau in his "Thoughts of a Right Mind" in 1826. Regardless of your success or social class, a true friend is always there for you. Beyond shared good times, they are expected to protect and care for you in any circumstance. L... more ...

Searching for a new partner is a thrilling adventure experienced by many singles. Every person possesses unique qualities and desires when seeking a life companion. In this article, we explore the question: How many compromises are acceptable during the search for a partner? Are these compromises indispensable for building a successful and happy relationship?  1. The Vital Role of Compromises in Relationships Compromises are an inevitable aspect of any relationship. They necessitate both partners to approach each other with empathy and understanding, considering each other's... more ...