When do you know if you can believe someone that says they love you immensely but do not show any physical signs after years of ED.

How does one know if they are simply using you ?

signed sad and lonely but still loves him...........
You don't need to be told that words are easily spoken, but actions really do require (at least some) effort. And if there is none, don't hang on to something that may not be there.
Cheers ~N~
I think I need to determine what qualifies as SOME effort?