10 reasons why most men can not be understood by strong women 16,985 views 8 minutes time to read 2 112 shares What makes a woman strong? Her fighting spirit, experience and dedication. A strong woman can endure years of pain and struggle with soul-breaking experiences, and then allows her to forgive all her enemies. She has repeatedly swam in the deep waters of betrayal and has learned to keep her breath.Strong women are independent, independent and loving . They are not afraid to show their vulnerability. A strong woman knows that the man today can be a teacher and tomorrow - be a student. There are 10 reasons why most men can not cope with a strong woman.
1. She does not need a defender .The man wants to be a shield. He must know that he is fighting for eternal love and the admiration of his wife. A strong woman loves her husband, but she always shows she is independent and can handle everything alone. She will fight for love, but she does not need a man to solve her problems. Strong women do not sit and wait for help. To be close to such a woman, you have to go to her, not to her!
2. She knows what and who She wants, women to know what they want and how to achieve it. They remember everything they had to endure to get what they have. Such a woman knows who she wants. If she liked a man, she would follow him. The strong woman will not wait until he decides to take the first step. Their certainty and insistence really scares some men. These women love with all their heart, but they will always continue to explore the world around them, with or without a man. It needs a very confident man. Only the strong woman would allow him to take responsibility.
3. It needs a man's honesty and vulnerability. They are hard to share their problems. Strong women are not afraid to dive into the depths of pain, mental trauma and life changes. They need a person who can be honest and vulnerable with them because they have lived through their lives a lot. They need to know that their companion is ready to sail into the ocean of insecurity or to go on a trip to the brink of madness. Strong women are not afraid of the past. They find in it what people do to us. They need someone to support them in every situation. Men tend to avoid strong women as they are afraid to show their weakness!
4. She is not afraid to show intimacy. One strong woman challenges the man in the most incredible ways. It requires intimacy in all its forms: from a simple conversation to making love. A strong woman knows her femininity well and therefore wants the man to be open to all aspects of intimacy. She needs a lot of passion, constant desire and the feeling that she is the only one in the world
5. She immediately feels the lie. The strong women are honest and expect from the companion in her life full trust. They are able to feel the lie right away, so do not even try to deceive them! A strong woman has the ability to be a real detector of the discovery of the truth. She will not tolerate false words and male selfishness for anything in the world. Do not start a strong woman if you can not be completely honest with her!
6. Requires dedication and consistency. Gains possessing inner strength do not tolerate inconsistent or indecent individuals. They want to know that their beloved has a complete character that respects her and keeps her word. Strong women want to feel they are loved unconditionally. If a man does not love her anymore, she will quietly let her go instead of seeking something that does not exist anymore. The strong woman more than anything else feels to feel weak and deceived
7. She lives at full speed. The strong woman has experienced many amazing situations, problems and obstacles. She knows she can handle everything, so she lives so bright that it shocks a lot of people. This person is really able to scare with the intensity of his emotions and thoughts. A strong woman ready to share her "skeletons in the wardrobe" expects her husband to do the same. There are no secrets in her world
8. She will not wait indefinable. One strong woman is ready to follow her beloved in the depths of hell if she knows he is devoted to her. But if he starts to keep the relationship going, he'll let him go where his eyes see. The strong woman will not wait long while the man pretends to be willing or wants someone else. Either with her or not. She will suffer, but will survive it and will continue on. Silly women do not play girls games.
9. She loves unconditionally. In love the strong woman is true and steady. She will care and love her husband with all her tenderness and passion. If a woman feels reciprocity, she will do her best to make her partner feel loved. She will support him, help him and fight to get everything he deserves. And only an infinitely strong woman will let you go if you ask her for it. She knows the true cost of love. Many men can not deal with such unconditional love. They are afraid of her strength and depth, so they run away from the strong women
10. It will show you your true nature People find it difficult to accept their negative traits especially when someone points them out. But the strong woman always draws attention to the deficiencies of her husband who need a correction. But along with it she will show you how incredibly you are. It will show you your faith and confidence in your abilities. Many potential partners in life can not cope with such emotional chaos. The strong woman always finds the strong man. Weaknesses immediately drop out! Strong women have dignity, strength, intellect and independence. They have no time to play games. Only the one who can cope with their unconditional love, honesty and bright emotions can make them happy! Do you think you know a man like that?
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My questions is how many men can handle strong women?????? :D :D :D :D :D :D Sosa666
“We need women
who are at the head of a boardroom,
like at the head of the White House,
at the head of major scientific enterprises
so that little girls everywhere
can then think, you know what?
I can do that, I want to do that, I will do that.”
~ Chelsea Clinton

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Yes, we do
Kindred spirit- you know me so well.
Feels good to know that I am not crazy to forgive the hurts or sense those lies.
Thank you for sharing.
:)
You are welcome PurpleSquirrel
I strongly disagree with this, there is no such creature as a strong woman, behind a strong woman is a man supporting her with a bank account, in front of a strong woman there is a kitchen sink full of dirty dishes.My dishwasher broke down the other day so I hugged her and she was alright after that
I do not think you can define people by their strengths and weaknesses as we all have some of each as human beings. I feel it is more important to focus on mutual respect and honesty and ensure that any relationship you enter into is an equal partnership where one person's strengths can support the other's weaknesses rather than take advantage of them so that you can work as a team, as opposed to one partner being in control of the other.
Well said, Graham. We each of us, both men and women have strengths and weaknesses. By focusing on only one, we do a disservice to the individual as we are a combination of many unique idiosyncrasies and abilities that can change with time and circumstance.
I totally agree with Applemac :)
cerberus97 wrote: I strongly disagree with this, there is no such creature as a strong woman, behind a strong woman is a man supporting her with a bank account, in front of a strong woman there is a kitchen sink full of dirty dishes.My dishwasher broke down the other day so I hugged her and she was alright after that


There are some men like you cerberus97 and there are some men that can't stand a woman that can speak her mind. Some Woman are not strong enough to stand up for herself, as I know a few. This is where abuse comes in (mental abuse/stress), so many woman leave their SO. Like Graham said, it should be equal partnership in whatever kind of relationship you are in, this is a lasting relationship. Otherwise, like here, the female will leave and find shelter else where, there are a few woman shelters in Calgary that will help them get back on their feet again, some with child/ren.

Just imagine this, if we are in agreement with what ever it is, and be understanding of the situation, how would that relationship be? It's a matching relationship, a relationship that will support one another instead of one be controlling, don't get me wrong, yes there are men that are being abuse, this is why there are more men living on the streets and with cold weather, you will find them in one of those shelters that take in homeless like "Inn from the Cold" in Calgary, AB. I use to volunteer for Inn from the cold" you get to hear their stories, yes there are a few females and children involve in this situation.
So, be supportive to one another and be understanding of their situation and it will go along ways.
Why not view the situation like this? : A good man / woman relationship should be a contest between the two to out serve one another.
the belief that men and women are equal is common on dating sites in accordance with my research but the unpalatable (for many) fact s that men and women are different species and that women having been created by god as subserviant to man due to their being made from the male ribcage are therefore psysically biologically and mentally weaker, on top of which, the female brain is smaller than the male allowing men abilities a woman could only dream of including computational arithmetic satire humor and sarcasm
cerberus97 wrote: the belief that men and women are equal is common on dating sites in accordance with my research but the unpalatable (for many) fact s that men and women are different species and that women having been created by god as subserviant to man due to their being made from the male ribcage are therefore psysically biologically and mentally weaker, on top of which, the female brain is smaller than the male allowing men abilities a woman could only dream of including computational arithmetic satire humor and sarcasm


There are Alpha males and Alpha females.
https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2017/04/study-finds-some-significant-differences-brains-men-and-women

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/hope-relationships/201402/brain-differences-between-genders

For generations, it always been a dominate male, but today's society, females are speaking up for themselves, it is changing.

Some females have sense of humor that male don't understand or the wittiness of their nature. Or vise versa. I follow the example of my Father, some of it of my mother.
There are more and more females taking the field of what males do as well. Quizz in this site will show you that.

There are woman in the bible that are Alpha females.
Mary (Jesus Mother)
Rebekah
Ruth
Hannah
Abigail

If it always Alpha male, what would the female do if the Alpha male pass on?
If you take a look at what male discover like Sir Isaac Newton, Alexander Graham Bell,

https://www.jenniferalambert.com/alpha-female/

https://www.thetrumpet.com/15993-the-rise-of-the-alpha-female

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viola_Desmond

I am not disagreeing with you cerberus97, just pointing out some facts that I found on the net and what they discovered. :)



daisyjean wrote: I am not disagreeing with you cerberus97, just pointing out some facts that I found on the net and what they discovered. :)



Gregory L. Jantz Ph.D. wrote in Psychology Today

"Male brains utilize nearly seven times more gray matter for activity while female brains utilize nearly ten times more white matter. What does this mean?

Gray matter areas of the brain are localized. They are information- and action-processing centers in specific splotches in a specific area of the brain. This can translate to a kind of tunnel vision when they are doing something. Once they are deeply engaged in a task or game, they may not demonstrate much sensitivity to other people or their surroundings.

White matter is the networking grid that connects the brain’s gray matter and other processing centers with one another. This profound brain-processing difference is probably one reason you may have noticed that girls tend to more quickly transition between tasks than boys do. The gray-white matter difference may explain why, in adulthood, females are great multi-taskers, while men excel in highly task-focused projects."

This proves my point that women are built to serve, multi-tasking allows them to transition their attention between husband children pets cooking ironing thanks daisy for seeking the facts to prove there are no strong females.
bobpyle wrote: Why not view the situation like this? : A good man / woman relationship should be a contest between the two to out serve one another.


I guess a good topic is better than none? :lol:
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