I have been single again for 6 months. He was the major breadwinner here, I worked (and still work) part time. I am in a small town, no other jobs, and have some health issues that prevent me from working full time. I am trying to stay here, because I will never find a cheaper place to live. I am scraping to pay my rent, and I fall behind on other bills.
My issue now is that I have a son getting married this fall. I really don't know how I'm going to pay for things, like my dress, hotel rooms (wedding is not close to home), and all those other expenses that come up when planning a wedding. They are not asking me to pay for any of the wedding itself, but we all know there are many things to do and pay for.
I don't know where to turn. I am 100% sure I would not qualify for a bank loan, and I don't trust any other loan companies, and may not qualify with them anyway.
Just don't know what to do.