I know that some things can not be fixed, but all I can do was try. when people I know are hurting, it hurts me. its just the type of person I am .I agree that messages sent to members should stay between themselves, and not be posted on the forums for others to see.I have had that done to me by a member who I thought was a friend. who turned out to be my worst nightmare and it still comes back to haunt me and other members to. if I did not feel sad about the way things have turned out between you both, what kind of friend would I be. what this ghost but us through and other members from the site was real nasty. but the good thing from all that, was a few of us became very close friends on and of the site. that is why it saddens me to see close friends become enemies. not sure if that s the right word to use but I think people will get what I mean. you both may not be friends with each other. but you are still close friends of mine. unless you you turn into trolls just joking x
Thinking that the hardest part of developing and keeping friendships is recognizing and respecting limits. Sometimes it can be a tussle in the beginning to establish these limits. What seems perfectli innocent to one person may raise the hackles of another. The only thing I can suggest is clear, honest communication. If an apology is offered, graciously accept it.