Can a male find a FLR/ Domme on here

Hi I am searching for a particular type of a woman and. Unique relationship,dynamic.
Its called a Female Lead Relationship.
I'm new to this site so any help or advice would be helpful .

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Hmm,, FLR,, Good luck in your search.....I, for one, am a MLR ?? I have always, and will always, think of the male companion as the "alpha"

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blackwidow wrote: Hmm,, FLR,, Good luck in your search.....I, for one, am a MLR ?? I have always, and will always, think of the male companion as the "alpha"


so right bw thats how it should be... theres something wrong with a man who wants to be dominated by a woman

Re: Can a male find a FLR/ Domme on here

For the sake of balance a FLR or a MLR are ok but many prefer an equal partnership! What right does anyone have to judge the preferences of others?

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Here come da Judge! Here come da Judge! lol, (just funnin') Old Flip Wilson?

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I'm a fan of MLR. To hold that place, I think a man is responsible for earning it. No violence, arrogant lording over and the like. A compassionate man should be in charge. A despot deserves scorn.
Just sayin

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I have observed that many couples have a more dominant personality. One of the pair tends to make a lot of the decisions and the other tends to follow. Opposites attract eh? I have observed that women often run the household, relationship and child parts of the "family unit", men tend to lead more on the physical aspects: money, building & vehicle acqquisition & maintenance. That's a gross generalization of course. In my (former) family, I had to make all the decisions and I disciplined my children because my former partner did not. You do what you must. In my mind, I would like an equal partner, it's just not what I see most of the time.

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walkinwilbur wrote: I have observed that many couples have a more dominant personality. One of the pair tends to make a lot of the decisions and the other tends to follow. Opposites attract eh? I have observed that women often run the household, relationship and child parts of the "family unit", men tend to lead more on the physical aspects: money, building & vehicle acqquisition & maintenance. That's a gross generalization of course. In my (former) family, I had to make all the decisions and I disciplined my children because my former partner did not. You do what you must. In my mind, I would like an equal partner, it's just not what I see most of the time.

I agree in that I don't understand why a lady would want to be led by a man and vice versa. We are all equal human beings and deserve equal respect. To my mind there is something missing in a relationship where both partners do not want equal input. That's just my opinion! :D

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I'd just like to find one that's not looney. :)

Sorry G, but I couldn't resist. On the contrary, this dating scene that I've finally jumped into has been quite advantageous for me. I've read more books in the last year than I did the entire 15 years I was married.

Ask me anything...go ahead. Ask me. :D :D :lol:

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Hi everybody. I have been searching for a FLR for a long time. When I mention it in conversation ladies seem to think I’m seeking a dominatrix! I actually seek a loving long term relationship with a lady I can love and adore. The only kinky part as I see it is I like her being in charge and for me to do everything I can to please her.

Am I asking to much?

Yours D x

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walkinwilbur wrote: I have observed that many couples have a more dominant personality. One of the pair tends to make a lot of the decisions and the other tends to follow. Opposites attract eh? I have observed that women often run the household, relationship and child parts of the "family unit", men tend to lead more on the physical aspects: money, building & vehicle acqquisition & maintenance. That's a gross generalization of course. In my (former) family, I had to make all the decisions and I disciplined my children because my former partner did not. You do what you must. In my mind, I would like an equal partner, it's just not what I see most of the time.


The facts are equality is an illusion. discussion yes agreement yes but someone must lead