Thanks Graham! You're a positive thinker too and I like that. I find people who use sarcasm and whining holding themselves back with negativity. And it is not an endearing quality to have.
I would like to say that I have found someone.
We are thinking of announcing it soon. We want to share our good news, joy and happiness, with members on this site. It IS possible to find someone here just right for you. Never lose hope, be open, honest and loving. Maybe, for some reason or other, it wasn't right for you with a certain partner in the past, learn from it but don't dwell on it. Move forward. I like the saying, yesterday is gone, the future isn't here yet, and today is all you have, enjoy it.